Lately,
I’ve many thoughts in my mind, especially towards people around me, and what life I am living right now.
Being surrounded by friends everyday, nevertheless, my family and my love one. I enjoyed being with them, they brought joy and happiness to me, I have what I’ve been wanted and I’m aiming for what I want in the future, I also have the freedom to do what I like, I should be very satisfied with my current comfort and stressless condition.
But I’m not, I still feel emptiness when I’m alone. Those happiness that they brought to me, its just temporary, not permanent, you might have a lot of friends, but do you really have any friend that truly understand you, care about you?
Peoples are changing,when you care about someone, you don’t call them, talk to them already, instead you let facebook replace your voice, you will never need to wish someone happy birthday with your mouth opened, because just a few simple words, you can wish him/her on facebook. but the sincerity, isn’t there anymore. really, isn’t there anymore.
Care and love for others are diminishing because everybody is staying infront of the computer nowadays, trapped by the facebook culture. They can tell you that how good you are, how well you’ve done, how much they miss you, but all those are worthless because those priceless expressions have been hiden behind the computer screen. No more true smile from their face, because they have been replaced by -> 
or :D or XD or =D or =) or whatever emoticon it is.
True friend that care about you and helped you out when you’re in any trouble? nah…. if you can find a few, or maybe one, you’re lucky enough. People that show their care and love by actions, rather than words in facebook, are getting rarer and rarer. Just like dinosaur, they might extinct.
Think about that, are you addicted to facebook? or belongs to the dinosaur group? If you’re one of the latter, congrats, continue your happy life.
Secondly, I observe, I feel, and I interpret what and how the people is around me. I noticed, some have special mindset, some are still the same old them. While from new friends I made in UNMC, I can see many characters and personalities, selfish, generous, friendly, outgoing, pessimistic, self-centered, over-sensitive, boastful, action-less people,etc. Really a lot varies kind of people, some makes me feel worth being together with, some I feel pity for them. You can’t really change what and how they think, they have to experience it themselves, and some chose to be the way they are now. Different kind of people gave me different type of lessons.
As you grow up, you’re no more a kid and no more fantasy mindset, you have to Learn how to observe and interpret people, choose who to get along and mix with, because in the end, who you mix with will determine what kind of people you are going to be. 近朱者赤 近墨者黑， this is very true when one day you understand it. Sometimes, its unavoidable you have to choose who to be with, because not everyone suits you.
This is REALITY.
Slow down, Think for yourself. Reflect your life.
What you want and who you’re going to be?
To me, 最幸福的事，莫过于和我喜欢的人在一起，自由自在做一些我喜欢做的事.
